Angel shots are a drink YOU can order when/if you feel unsafe.
An Angel isn’t an actual drink— It is a coded message. Whenever a guest feels uncomfortable, unsafe, or in need of outside assistance for any reason, they can ask the bartender for an “angel shot” to alert them to the situation. Then, the bartender can take the appropriate action to discreetly ensure that the guest’s safety is ensured without causing a scene or escalating the situation. Often, these shots are ordered by women who feel unsafe around a man who they suspect has ill intentions.
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Often, this “code” is needed because the guest or customer doesn’t feel comfortable asking for help directly. The person who’s making them feel unsafe is listening in, so they use the “angel shot” order to ask for help without drawing attention to themselves.
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There are different types of angel shot orders for different situations, so the bar staff can immediately understand whether a guest needs an escort to their car or for the police to be called, for instance.
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Who can order an angel shot? Most angel shots are ordered by women since they are more likely to feel unsafe in bars, on dates, and in public areas. However, anyone who feels unsafe can order an angel shot, regardless of their age, race, gender, sexuality, or level of intoxication.
If you’re wondering if you should order an angel shot, remember that your safety always comes first, and it’s better to be safe than sorry. If you have any doubt about your current and imminent well-being, prioritize your safety by discreetly reaching out for help.
What to Order:
Angel Shot Straight Up / Neat
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Meaning: “I need an escort to my car.”
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Action: Bartender or staff will discreetly arrange for a safe exit, often with a driver or security escort.
Angel Shot on Ice / On the Rocks
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Meaning: “Please call a taxi, Uber, or ride service to take me home safely.”
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Action: Staff will arrange for a ride without alerting the person in the situation.
Angel Shot with a Lime / With a Twist
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Meaning: “I am in immediate danger; please call the police.”
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Action: This is the highest-level alert — staff will immediately contact law enforcement and take the patron to a safe location.